Deep throating is when you take your husbands penis all the way into your throat. It’s not just a blowjob with your mouth, you literally take it into your throat. Some men and women enjoy it, others despise it. The biggest issue with deep throating is gagging. About a third of women don’t have any gag reflex. If so, deep throating is much easier. If you do have a gag reflex, deep throating is much harder. Once you get it under control, however, it becomes relatively easy.
You can look online for tips on how to desensitize your gag reflex and get it under control. Instead of going through all of that trouble, however, it’s often much easier to use a throat numbing spray to temporarily desensitize the gag reflex. You can find these on Amazon for less than $10.
Especially early on, don’t deep throat your husband without telling him. It requires practice and gentleness on his part to make it work without being painful. So make sure he knows exactly what you’re doing before you do it. Tell your husband what you’re going to attempt before trying it. You want him to be as still as possible the first few times you try.
Positioning is important for deep throat. Do this on a bed. Lay flat on your back with your head hanging over the edge. Have your husband stand or kneel so that his penis is at the level of your mouth. This opens up your throat and makes the angle easier for deep throat. Have him go in slowly and tap the bed with your hand when you want him to back out.
Remember, you have to breathe as well! Try breathing through your nose. Depending on the size of your throat and his penis, even this might be impossible. If so, you’ll have to take breaks every 10-15 seconds to breathe. There’s just no way around it.
Many women simply can’t deep throat or never enjoy it. If that’s you, don’t worry. There’s plenty of other fun things to do in the bedroom.