Probably the most common complaint men have when they’re not satisfied with sex is “she’s like a limp fish”. A lot of women want to show their husband they’re enjoying sex but don’t know how to express that.
Interestingly, the key to not being a “limp fish” in bed begins outside the bedroom. Let him know you’re thinking of him or that you’re looking forward to the night. This lets him know that he’s not the only one getting pleasure out of sex.
Once you two are in the bedroom and his clothes start coming off, run your fingers and hands over his body. If you like something about his appearance or his smell, compliment him! Men don’t get compliments but love them just as much as we do. When was the last time a friend complimented you on your outfit or on your hair or on anything? Probably recently. Ask your husband the last time a friend complimented him on anything. There’s a good chance he won’t be able to think of any example. So compliment him, he’ll feel so great!
Give him verbal feedback during sex. If he’s doing something right tell him how good it makes you feel. You don’t have to be detailed. It could be something as simple as “Right there” or “keep going” or “more” or “don’t stop”. If he’s doing something wrong, give him guidance! Some women are shy about this but it’s very important. If he doesn’t know what he’s doing wrong, how can he improve it?
Ask him how he feels? It can be something as simple as, “Do you like that?” or “Does that feel nice?”. He’ll give you feedback and you can continue or adjust accordingly. A grunt or moan is a positive feedback