This includes the famous missionary position, the one position that is used most often in sex. Your husband is more dominant in these positions.
Missionary
This is the most common sex position, period. You might find that it’s your go-to position. It works for almost everyone regardless of fitness level, flexibility, and weight. Don’t worry, you’re not “vanilla” just because you enjoy this position (not that there’s anything wrong with being vanilla if it satisfies you two in the bedroom).
You lay down on your back with your legs open. Your husband gets on top with his legs between you. He can rest some of his weight on his elbows to avoid crushing you. On the other hand, you might find that you like the feeling of him allowing some of his weight to push you down onto the bed. Experiment to see what is most pleasurable.
To increase pleasure in this position, have him grind on you while he’s thrusts. Basically, he needs to move his pelvis up and down while thrusting so that his pubic bone pushes into your clitoris. Don’t think, however, that just because he’s dominant in this position that you should do nothing. That’s a recipe for the dreaded “limp fish” syndrome. Be vocal, don’t be shy in letting out any moans of pleasure. Use your arms to wrap around his neck or head, or even to grab his back so that you can pull yourself up to cause even deeper penetration. If you’re into BDSM, he can lightly choke you with one or two hands while in this position. Read the section on BDSM and safe words before trying that though.