These are for when you’re feeling a bit more dominant and want to take control.
Cowgirl
Cowgirl is the most common position when the woman is on top.
Have your husband lay down on his back and straddle him. Put your legs on either side of his waist such that your knees are on the bed. Now you’re in control. Take his penis with your hands and guide it inside of you. Depending on the length of his penis and the depth of your vagina, it might be painful to sit straight down. This is a position where smaller penis length is preferable. If he’s hitting your cervix and making it uncomfortable, lean forward and angle yourself so that it’s more comfortable. You can put your hands on his chest, on the bed, or on your thighs. Then start riding him. The first time you do this, you’ll likely find yourself bouncing up and down on his penis. Later on, you can cary this by moving your body back and forth, basically grinding against his pubic bone. This is fantastic for stimulating your clitoris and the rest of your vagina. As you get even more comfortable with this position, you can combine and grind against his pubic bone while bouncing up and down. Use your hips. Move them around. Back and forth, up and down, side to side, even some swirling. Instead of thinking about it as his penis being inside of you and then you moving around, think about it as you stroking his penis with your vagina. The bulk of the motion should be originating from your hip area. Full body bouncing is nice for his viewing pleasure but it’s the hip motion that is really going to work his penis.
Remember, you’re in control here. You can change the angle of entry by shifting back and forth. Your husband doesn’t have to do anything in this position and the first few times you try it, it’s better for him to just lay back and enjoy the view. He’ll love seeing your breasts bounce up and down as you ride him. As you two get used to each other, he can start contributing by using his hips as well. A simple up and down thrusting movement can add some variation. He can also gyrate his hips in a swirling motion to stimulate your vaginal walls during this position. Depending on how you two feel about anal play, he can also insert a finger or two into your rectum or, at the very least, push you up and down while holding your butt.
Lying cowgirl
This is a small variation of the cowgirl position. Have your husband lie on his back and the edge of the bed. His feed can be touching the floor or just hanging along the side of the bed. Straddle him with one leg on each side of his body and your pelvis meeting his. Then lean forward and bring your boobs into contact with his chest. He trades the chance to get a view of you riding him with the feeling of your skin against his. The pelvis-pelvis contact can give you some clitoral stimulation if you throw in the right hip action.
Asian Cowgirl
This is a small variation of the cowgirl position. Instead of straddling your husband, you squat over him. Start out by getting in the regular cowgirl position. Lean forward, put your hands on either side of his body to steady yourself, then rock back into the squatting position (yes, the position you use in toilets back home). Women with thicker thighs find that this position gives them greater range of motion. It also requires you to have very strong thighs and lower body muscles. Even women who are athletic and in great shape can’t keep this position for more than a minute or two.
Reverse Cowgirl
This is very similar to the cowgirl position, but with you facing the other way. Your husband lays down on his back and you straddle him with your knees on either side of his thighs. You’re facing away from his face, giving him a view of your back, not your breasts. If you have a larger butt, this is a good position to allow him to play with your butt while you’re having sex. Don’t be surprised if he delivers some light spanks while you’re riding him in this position. Some women find the reverse cowgirl to be an easier position to start out with than the cowgirl position. The lack of eye to eye contact takes some of the anxiety and nervousness out of the equation.
Reverse Asian Cowgirl
Combine the previous two
Lunge
If you’ve ever done a lunge, you’ll know from the name that this position also requires a good deal of strength and flexibility. This is really just a small variation of Asian cowgirl. Once you get into position, you keep your front foot planted but your rear leg extended out behind you and between your husband’s legs. In a sense, you’re doing a “lunge” while positioning your vagina over his penis.
Amazon
This is one of the most difficult to perform women-on top positions. It
requires flexibility for both partners and an above average penis length for the male. It’s also one of the most dominating positions for the woman so it’s worth trying at least once. For this position, your husband should lie down on his back like he would for any other woman-on-top position. Then, he should bring his legs up and bend his knees. You squat down on him while he’s pulling his legs close to his chest. Then you just squat up and down to allow him to penetrate you. As you do this position, you’ll find that he automatically pushes you back upwards with his thighs. You might find that leaning against his thighs helps take the pressure off your legs a bit. Be careful in this position. Go slow so that you don’t accidentally hurt his penis.
Kneeling Amazon
This is a variant of the Amazon. To make it a little bit easier on the legs but still requires an above average amount of physical stamina. Get into the same position as Amazon but on your knees instead of squatting. You can stay in this position longer and also have more flexibility in choosing your angle. With this position, you have a chance to enjoy some deep penetration.
Reverse Amazon
Another variant of the Amazon. You get into the same position but face away from him rather than towards him. The difference in angle can give you a very unique sensation.
Kneeling reverse Amazon
Combine the previous two
Inverted Missionary
This is exactly what it sounds like. It’s like missionary, but inverted. Your husband lays down with his legs together. You straddle him with your knees on the bed, facing him. Learn forward so that you’re resting on him. You can be as active as you want in this position, using your hips to move up and down his penis. Or, you can have him be the active one and do some thrusting. This is a good position to try because it flips the usual position. Hopefully, being a “limp fish” isn’t a problem for you after reading this App, but if you were one, this position would let you know how it feels for your husband when he’s in missionary and you’re being a “limp fish”. You can always spice up this position by kissing him and holding him close for more skin to skin contact. If you want to play up the dominant angle, grab his arms and pin them over his head. To add some clitoral stimulation, pretend you’re doing a crunch and move your crotch up towards your body while in this position.
Sybian
Have your husband lay down on an ottoman (or a soft-cushioned stool or something similar). Straddle him like your’e in the cowgirl position but since you’re not on a bed, you’ll have your feet planted on the ground. You can use your legs to bounce up and down him. You can also grind on him or thrust forwards and back. Remember, leaning front or back can help change the angle of entry. Your hands can either go on his stomach or stimulate your clitoris to increase the chance of an orgasm. This is one that requires a lot of energy to do with not as much of an increase in pleasure.
Thigh master
For this position, your husband should start out by lying on his back. He should extend one leg and bend the other at the knee, planting his foot on the bed. You should mount him by facing away and straddling his raised thigh. Basically, have one knee on either side of his leg and lower yourself onto his penis. Hold on to his leg but use your own legs to help you bounce on him. One of the great things about this position is that you can directly rub your clitoris onto his thigh. In a way, you’re humping his thigh while you’re doing this.
Worm
Have your husband lay on his back on the bed with his legs spread as much as possible. You sit on top of him while facing away Then you lean forward and slide your feet toward’s his head, kind of like a pushup position. Do this very slowly and stop if it’s uncomfortable for him. This position puts your butt front and center and gives your husband a great view. In addition, he can see his penis coming in and out of your vagina, which is a major plus.